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Tsoknyi Rinpoche on Emotional Well-Being

Length
20:23
Kind
Interview
Chapters
7

In this talk

  1. 0:00High-class suffering
  2. 2:19Cognitive and emotional development
  3. 5:51Dropping into the body
  4. 10:13The feeling of okayness
  5. 13:13Training thinking afterwards
  6. 14:28Reification and the useful I
  7. 18:36The right amount of holding

Tsoknyi Rinpoche on what he calls "high-class suffering", the emotional cost of cognitive overdevelopment in the modern West, and how to relieve it.

Recorded in September 2013 as an interview with Jonathan Rose, co-founder of the Garrison Institute.

Tsoknyi Rinpoche describes the suffering of people in modern societies as a disconnection from basic well-being, which he calls essence love. He contrasts the heavy stress on cognitive education in the West with the emotional development he saw growing up in Tibetan and Nepali society. He then explains a practice: drop thinking into the body, know whatever sensation or feeling arises without suppressing, indulging or fixing it, and let numbness and old emotion open by themselves. Later he discusses how reifying experience as solid freezes well-being, and suggests holding a “functional I” in the right amount, with humour.

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